Men's community — SE Asia

Where men come
to grow, connect,
and lead.

Weekly online circles, immersive retreats across Southeast Asia, and an ongoing brotherhood built on emotional intelligence and real resilience.

Community at a glance
Weekly circles
Live · Asia TZ
Members across SE Asia
340+
Retreat cities
Bali · CM · BKK
Certified facilitators
28
Men's age range
30 — 60
Asia-friendly timezone
Men 30–60
No spiritual bypassing
Bali-based community
Online-first
Evidence-informed practice

Four paths into the tribe

Whether you're curious, committed, or ready to lead other men — there's an entry point for where you are right now.

01 — Circles
Weekly online circles
Small groups of 6–8 men. Real conversations, structured sharing, expertly held space. Every week, same time — Asia-friendly hours. No performance, no fixing — just honest presence.
Free trial circle available
02 — Retreats
Social events & retreats
3–5 day immersions in Bali, Chiang Mai, Bangkok, and beyond. Rites of passage, nature, brotherhood rituals, and no-agenda time together. Where real friendships are forged.
Next retreat: Bali, June 2026
03 — Training
Facilitator training
A 12-week program to become a certified men's circle facilitator. Rigorous theory, supervised practice, peer cohort, and ongoing mentorship. For men ready to serve other men.
Cohort 3 opening — August 2026
04 — Community
Ongoing membership
Full access to weekly circles, a private community forum, monthly guest sessions with leading practitioners, and member-only events. Your consistent container for growth.
From $49 / month
What we stand for

Three pillars.
One brotherhood.

01
Emotional intelligence
Learn to feel, name, and navigate the full range of human experience — without shutting down, numbing out, or blowing up. Expand your vocabulary and range as a man.
02
Resilience
Build the inner capacity to move through life's hardest seasons — career uncertainty, relationship breakdown, identity shifts, loss — without losing your ground or your character.
03
Brotherhood
Real friendships between men. Not networking. Not drinking. Not advice-giving. A tribe that truly sees you, calls you forward, and has your back through the years.
"The quality of your inner life determines the quality of everything else."
— BrothersTribe founding principle

Meet your brothers in person

Our immersive gatherings are where the real work happens. Held in some of SE Asia's most powerful natural settings.

Next up
Bali, Indonesia
The Still Point Retreat
A 4-day immersion in Ubud focused on stillness, shadow work, and rebuilding a relationship with your own inner life.
June 12–15, 2026
16 men maximum
From $1,200 USD
Chiang Mai, Thailand
Forest Brotherhood
A 5-day wilderness experience in the mountains north of Chiang Mai. Hiking, ceremony, fire, and deep time with men.
September 2026
12 men maximum
From $1,600 USD
Bangkok, Thailand
Urban Rites
A weekend intensive for Bangkok-based men. Social events, circle work, and a city-based initiation experience.
Quarterly
Open capacity
From $280 USD

What men say about showing up

"
I'd been in Bangkok five years and didn't have a single real conversation with another man until I joined a circle. I didn't know how much I was carrying alone until I wasn't anymore.
JM
James M.
Bangkok · Member since 2023
"
The facilitator training changed how I show up as a father, a founder, and a friend. I came in thinking I'd learn some tools. I left with a completely different relationship to myself as a man.
RK
Reuben K.
Bali · Facilitator Cohort 2
"
I've done therapy, I've read the books. Nothing accelerated my growth like being in a room — or a Zoom — with honest men who weren't trying to fix me. This is different. This works.
DL
David L.
Singapore · Member since 2022
"
The Bali retreat broke me open in the best way. I cried for the first time in years. I laughed harder than I have in years. I came home to my wife and kids as a different kind of man.
MT
Marco T.
Chiang Mai · Retreat alumni

Choose your level of commitment

Start with a free circle. Stay for the brotherhood.

Explorer
Free
One trial circle
One free circle session
Access to community intro
Full circle schedule
Private community
Monthly guest sessions
Retreat discounts
Elder
$149
per month
Everything in Brother
Facilitator training access
1:1 monthly check-in
20% retreat discount
Priority circle placement
Leadership cohort access

Become the man who holds space for other men

A 12-week certified program for men ready to facilitate circles, lead their own groups, and serve their community.

W1–2
Foundations of men's work
Theory, history, ethics, and the facilitator's inner work
W3–5
Circle structure & facilitation
Opening, holding, closing — the mechanics of a well-run circle
W6–8
Emotional depth & safety
Working with grief, rage, shame, and vulnerability in groups
W9–11
Supervised live practice
Facilitate real circles with mentorship and peer feedback
W12
Certification & next steps
Assessment, certification, and joining the facilitator network
Cohort 3 — August 2026
Duration
12 weeks · 3 hours/week
Format
Online · Asia timezone
Cohort size
12 men maximum
Investment
$1,800 USD · payment plans available
Prerequisites
3+ months as a BrothersTribe member

SE Asia is our home base

Online-first, but deeply rooted in the cities and landscapes of Southeast Asia.

Bali
Indonesia
Flagship retreat location. Monthly in-person socials. Home of BrothersTribe HQ.
Chiang Mai
Thailand
Bi-annual wilderness retreats. Monthly social evenings for local members.
Bangkok
Thailand
Urban Rites weekend intensives. Largest member concentration in the tribe.
Singapore
Singapore
Quarterly social events. Growing member base of professionals and founders.
Online
Everywhere
All circles are online. Asia timezone slots throughout the week.

Questions men ask
before showing up

The honest answers to the things you're probably wondering.

No. BrothersTribe is built for ordinary men — entrepreneurs, professionals, expats, dads — not for those already deep in personal development culture. You don't need any prior experience with therapy, meditation, or men's work. A genuine willingness to be honest and to listen is all that's required.
A circle is a structured 90-minute online session with 6–8 men. It opens with a check-in where each man shares briefly how he's arriving — what's on his mind, in his body, in his life. From there, the facilitator guides the group through a theme or deeper sharing process. There's no advice-giving, no fixing, no problem-solving. Just honest listening and presence. It closes with a check-out and group acknowledgements.
All circles are scheduled with SE Asia in mind. Current slots include Tuesday evenings at 7:30pm ICT (Bangkok/Chiang Mai), Wednesday evenings at 7:30pm WITA (Bali), and Sunday mornings at 9am SGT (Singapore). We're expanding the schedule as membership grows.
Both. Our community includes expats from many countries as well as local Thai, Indonesian, Singaporean, and Malaysian men. Circles are conducted in English. If there's demand for circles in other languages, we'll work toward that. What matters is a genuine desire to grow — not passport colour.
Support groups are typically organised around a shared problem or diagnosis. BrothersTribe circles are for men who are fundamentally well but want to go deeper — to live with more intention, build better relationships, develop emotional range, and connect with other men who take their growth seriously. It's forward-facing and aspirational, not deficit-based.
Life happens — that's understood. There's no penalty for missing a session. That said, the men who get the most from membership are those who commit to showing up consistently. We recommend treating your circle like any other important appointment. If your schedule is highly irregular, reach out and we'll help you find the right fit.
Our retreats are experiential and emotionally substantive — they're not corporate team-building days. There will be moments of depth and challenge. But they're grounded, well-facilitated, and designed for men who aren't already steeped in retreat culture. You won't be asked to do anything that doesn't make sense to you. Clear expectations are set before you arrive.
The training is for men who feel called to hold space for others — whether to run their own circles, integrate this into a coaching or leadership role, or deepen their own practice. You need to have been a member for at least 3 months before applying. If you're unsure, book a call with one of our senior facilitators first.
Yes. Brother and Elder memberships are month-to-month and can be cancelled any time from your account settings. You retain access until the end of your current billing period. We don't offer refunds for partial months, but we do offer a genuine free trial circle before you commit to anything.
Confidentiality is one of the core agreements in every circle. What's shared in the circle stays in the circle. Members agree to this explicitly when they join, and it's reinforced at the start of every session by the facilitator. We take this seriously — it's what makes real honesty possible.
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